When you quit your job to follow your partner abroad, you didn’t realise how much you would miss using your professional skills and experiences. But here you are, a few months, a few years or maybe many years into your expat life and you feel that a part of you is ignored. Your career has been on hold for too long and you start to feel that you need to reconnect with your professional identity.
Research by Professor Yvonne McNulty (*) of Singapore University of Social Sciences has shown that career minded expat partners who do not work or do something else that replaces that in a satisfactory manner, experience loss of self-esteem, self-worth, identity and confidence and they feel isolated, disappointed, frustrated, powerless and angry.
This is definitely not the way you want to go. You are ready to pursue professional fulfilment again, be it in paid work or otherwise.
There is a problem, though:
* Where do I start?
* What exactly do I want to do?
* What can I do in my host country?
* How do I find out?
* How do I approach people?
Where….what….how……….. it’s overwhelming just thinking about it all.
It may help you to know that you are not alone.
A survey by Internations in 2019 (*) among 1,325 expat partners shows the following:
87% of respondents are highly educated with undergraduate, postgraduate or PhD degrees;
57% are not working;
44% are dissatisfied with their career prospects at the start of the overseas assignment and this number goes up to 50% in the period of one to three years.
There are many different ways of being engaged in a professional manner to give you that sense of excitement when you get up in the morning and the feeling of fulfilment when you go to bed at night.
Whether you have been out of work for only a short while or for many years, your aspirations are an important part of you. Ignoring or denying them can have serious consequences for your mental health. Please, don’t let that happen.
Work with me; together we can find your path to fulfilment, be it in paid work or otherwise.
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